after 13 years together on and off and 3 childen,2 boys aged 9 and 11,and a daughter who was born stillborn full term in betweenme and my partner or ex,have split up ,he got his own place several years ago and ive got mine,but more or less moved in permanent 2 year ago,still keeping my own home,since his elderly mum died he inherited a sum of money,and then he changed, being secretive buying furniture etc without asking my opionion,then after a fall out i moved back in to my own home,ive been back home over 3 months several times he asked me to pack my own home in etc,i said id think about it,then he went out and bought himself a very expensive bmw,3 weeks ago and i told him not to contact me,wait outside to pick the kids up twice a week etc because im mad he wont help me with fuel bills,decorating im lucky to get 5 pounds a week,i feel like hes rubbing salt in the wound seeing me struggle,which has made me feel bitter,cos i loved him very much.im hurting like hell but put a brave face on,has he lives on the same estate i rarely leave the house cos i feel its better not to have any contact face to face till am starting to get used to the unknown,insecure ,if i text and ask for money for gas or food he ignores me, its affecting kids cos they love us both what can i do to make it easier on me and the kids,just carry on hurting till i feel stronger not feel hurt when i face him what do i do ? im 38 hes 48 .........any advice id be grateful thankyou .
Topics: psychology, family & relationships
